The origins of Saint Valentine’s Day
Date: Tuesday, February 14th, 2006 (CDT )
Topic: Ancient History


Space RoseWhen pope Gelasius declared the 14th of February as St. Valentine’s Day, around 498 A.D. it was far from being a romantic celebration. The life of this saint has always been shrouded in mystery and so are the reasons that lead Christians to worship him.

History only tells us that he probably was a martyred man but the explanations for his dreadful destiny are mentioned in several different legends. Some historians point him as a priest who secretly defied the orders of Emperor Claudius by celebrating marriages of young couples.

Claudius had declared it to be forbidden for young men to get married before first serving their duty in the roman army. Others claim he was executed for trying to help Christians to escape prison and torture. The famous expression “from your Valentine” is actually attributed to this mysterious man who wrote it down at the end of a letter to his beloved while he was imprisoned in a roman dungeon and was said to have been executed on February 14th.



February’s romantic origins may also be connected with the ancient roman festival of Lupercalia, a fertility celebration often associated with the beginning of spring. Animals were usually offered in sacrifice to Romulus and Remus, the mythical founders of Rome, and the sacrificial blood was then spilled over women and fields, where it was believed it would bring them fertility.

Traditionally this time of the year was also considered to be very lucky for arranging matches and weddings. When the Catholic Church replaced these pagan celebrations for a holy day dedicated to Saint Valentine, it was a natural transition for people to make. Saint Valentine became one of the most popular saints in central Europe during the Middle Ages and his blessings were always related with romantic heroism. As the patron of lovers and weddings, his legend inspired people to start following the tradition of writing letters, poems or offering symbolic gifts to their loved ones on this special day.

Little information about the first valentines has survived, although we know that names like Henry V or Charles, Duke of Orleans, figure among the first who were known to have sent valentine letters. The tradition was already popular in Great Britain during the 17th century and Americans embraced it later, around the 18th century. It was actually many years later that the first mass produced valentines, created by Esther A. Houland, replaced the traditional hand-made ones. Houland’s artistic cards became the first to be produced by the American card industry and made Valentines day one of the most successful celebrations of modern times, second only to Christmas.

Of all the icons and symbols associated with this day, Cupid is undoubtedly one of the most popular among couples. For centuries, the image of this angelical child has been associated with virtues of love; while the arrows and bow he carries, are said to represent both the desire and the will to accomplish it. Being the god of love, he held the power to make his victims fall into an eternal dream of passion, but he also could keep couples apart for a whole lifetime. Originally, this winged boy was called “Cupido”, the Latin word for desire, and was known as the son of Venus, the roman goddess of beauty and love. But he was not always seen as a small child.

Cupid’s Greek counterpart, Eros (love), was the son of the goddess Aphrodite. Eros was described as one of the most beautiful of the gods and ended up falling in love with a mortal princess named Psyche. Aphrodite, who had been jealous of the Psyche’s beauty, sent her son Eros to kill Psyche, but instead he fell in love with her. Knowing that their marriage would make Aphrodite even angrier, Eros devised a cunning plan to win Psyche for himself while keeping his mother ignorant of his actions. The god of love and desire arranged to have Psyche taken to a desolate palace. Here, the innocent girl was told, she would become the bride of an evil being. Eros then came to Psyche when she had gone to bed every night when it was too dark to see anything. Using the darkness to his advantage he concealed his identity from the girl. He whispered in Psyche's ear that he was her husband and that she must not under any circumstances look upon him or seek to know who he was.

After listening to her jealous sisters, Psyche took the forbidden step of gazing at her husband’s face using a lamp. Furious, Eros left, and Psyche thought their relationship to be over forever. Beside herself with grief, she was now alone and abandoned by her husband. She searched continually for her lost love, but was unable to find him. In desperation, Psyche asked the goddesses Aphrodite for help. It was only after completing a series of seemingly impossible tasks that Aphrodite had set, that she was able to win back the love of Eros. Eros who had been equally bereft without Psyche then made her a goddess by giving her a drink of Ambrosia, which made her immortal, transforming her into a goddess. This is one of the reasons why Eros is seen as the symbolic bridge between divine and mortal love, the mythological proof that is possible for humans to reach the divine spheres through the power of love.

When we search for the origins of Saint Valentine’s Day, what we find is a combination of Roman celebrations, pagan traditions and ancient springtime festivals which were later “Christianised”. Although the mysterious valentine is known all over the world as the patron of this romantic day and Cupid became one of its famous icons, if we take a closer look at existing mythology, we realise that all ancient civilizations had their own deities specifically dedicated to love. In Ancient Egypt Hathor fulfilled this role, in Greece, Aphrodite and Eros. In Rome, Venus was worshipped and in India, Kama Varuna and Radha. In Norse mythology, Freyja was the goddess of love and fertility. Going back even further in Sumer, Ishtar fulfilled this role, the Aztecs had a god named Tlazolteotl, in northern Europe they had Yarilo and in the African continent they had Ani.

From Babylon to South America, from Ancient Britain to the sandy landscapes of Egypt, we also find hundreds of ancient love spells, incantations and poems. Love has always played a major role in the “playground” of our society, there have always been special days and celebrations dedicated to it, and from this year’s commercial preparations, the tradition seems to be here to stay.



This article was written for ThothWeb by Myrna.

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